Let's be real for a second. Faith can feel lonely sometimes.

Maybe you moved to a new city. Maybe your old church closed down. Maybe you just feel like nobody around you really gets what you believe or why it matters to you.

Here's the thing: you're not weird for feeling this way. And you're definitely not alone in feeling alone.

God didn't design us to walk this road by ourselves. We need people. We need community. We need folks who will pray with us, laugh with us, and sit with us when life gets hard.

So if you've been wondering how to find your people, here are 10 simple ways to start building real connections in your faith.

1. Join a Small Group

Small groups are one of the best ways to actually get to know people. Sunday morning services are great, but let's be honest, it's hard to make deep friendships when you're just waving at someone across a crowded room.

Small groups give you a chance to talk, share, ask questions, and be yourself. You don't have to be a Bible scholar. You just have to show up.

Look for groups at local churches or community centers. Many of them run for just four to six weeks, so it's not a huge commitment. You can always try another one if the first doesn't fit.

2. Get Involved in Community Outreach

Want to meet people who care about the same things you do? Serve alongside them.

Community outreach is a great way to connect with fellow believers while also making a difference. Whether it's helping at a food pantry, organizing a neighborhood cleanup, or volunteering with kids, working together builds bonds fast.

At Together God Wins, we believe that serving others is one of the most powerful ways to grow your faith and find your tribe. When you're side by side with someone doing good work, conversations happen naturally.

3. Start With People You Already Know

You might be surprised. There could be people right around you, neighbors, coworkers, parents at your kid's school, who share your faith and are looking for connection too.

You don't have to start a whole new search. Sometimes it just takes asking, "Hey, would you want to grab coffee and talk about life and faith sometime?"

It might feel awkward at first. That's okay. Most good things start a little awkward.

4. Mix Social and Spiritual Activities

Faith community doesn't have to look like sitting in a circle reading Scripture (though that's great too).

Try combining something you love with something spiritual. Into hiking? Invite a few people for a trail walk and end with a short devotional. Love cooking? Host a dinner and share what you're grateful for.

When you mix fun with faith, it feels less like a chore and more like real life. Because that's what it is.

5. Share a Meal Together

There's something about food that brings people together. Always has been, always will be.

Invite someone over for tacos. Meet a new friend for breakfast. Join a potluck at a local church. Don't worry about being fancy: paper plates work just fine.

Breaking bread together opens doors for real conversation. It's hard to stay strangers when you're passing the salsa.

6. Be Willing to Be Vulnerable

This one's tough but important.

Real community happens when people are honest with each other. That means being willing to share what's really going on: not just the highlight reel.

You don't have to spill your whole life story on day one. But when you open up a little, it gives others permission to do the same. That's where real friendships start.

7. Show Up Regularly

Here's the secret nobody talks about: community takes time.

You won't find your people after one visit. It takes showing up again and again. Same group. Same faces. Week after week.

It might feel slow at first. But those small moments add up. Before you know it, you'll have people who actually know your name, remember your stories, and care about your life.

Consistency beats intensity every time.

8. Try a Virtual Option

Can't make it to something in person? That's okay. There are more online options than ever.

Virtual small groups, online Bible studies, faith-based social media communities: these can all be real sources of connection. They're especially helpful if you're dealing with health issues, a crazy schedule, or just live somewhere remote.

It's not the same as a hug, but it's still community. And sometimes a kind message from someone across the country is exactly what you need.

9. Keep It Simple and Realistic

Here's a mistake a lot of people make: they try to do too much too fast.

You don't need a three-hour Bible study every week. You don't need to host a huge event. Start small. A 45-minute gathering works. A quick phone call counts. A text to check in matters.

Build community with the time you actually have. Something small and consistent beats something big that burns you out.

10. Don't Give Up

Finding your people might take longer than you hoped. That's normal.

Not every group will be the right fit. Not every person will become your best friend. That's okay. Keep trying. Keep showing up. Keep putting yourself out there.

God sees you. He knows you need community. And He's working behind the scenes to bring the right people into your life.

Your people are out there. Sometimes it just takes a little patience to find them.

You're Not Meant to Do This Alone

Faith was never supposed to be a solo journey. From the very beginning, God has been about community: people walking together, lifting each other up, and pointing each other toward hope.

If you're feeling alone right now, that's okay. It doesn't mean something's wrong with you. It just means it's time to take a step.

Pick one thing from this list. Just one. And try it this week.

Maybe it's joining a small group. Maybe it's texting someone you haven't talked to in a while. Maybe it's looking into community outreach opportunities near you.

Whatever it is, take that first step. Your people are waiting.

And remember: together, God wins. That's not just a saying. It's the truth. When we come together in faith, amazing things happen.

If you're looking for a place to start, visit Together God Wins to learn more about how you can connect, serve, and grow alongside others who believe what you believe.

You don't have to figure this out alone. Let's do it together.